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Unmana's avatar

Everything of yours I read has me leaning forward in response--yes, yes, i feel this.

Novels are deceptively hard to write? And I've never applied to an MFA even though I've thought about it for nearly two decades(!) now because paperwork is scary. You applied, to more than one, that's a lot! And they're fools to not take you.

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Riddhi Dastidar's avatar

thanks unmana. trying to chin up soldier etc. and yes they are INCREDIBLY hard to write and still YOU DID IT goddamn

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Raju Tai's avatar

Thank you for this beautiful piece, Riddhi. You made joy and grief seem compatible. And that's incredibly reassuring.

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Riddhi Dastidar's avatar

to make joy and grief feel compatible -- now That's a reassuring comment. thank you xx

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Anuradha Sainath's avatar

Rejoice in the love that has found you! This note on love and its fav attendant, betrayal and heartbreak, had me thinking about success within similar borders. Maybe at 33, heteropatriarchy is a stepping stone, a passage to be able to go to the grove of deep self love. See you next year is the only thing that saddens. One whole year?

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Riddhi Dastidar's avatar

heheheh thanks anuradha, perhaps i will post more casual reading and watching remarks here on the sly with your encouragement <3

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Anuradha Sainath's avatar

Planning the perfect spot to read in anticipation of the mithai

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